Despite the breakup, Paltrow admitted that she was "totally heartbroken" when they parted ways. She felt like she wasn't living up to certain standards and wasn't ready for marriage. Despite their split, Paltrow and Pitt maintained a close friendship over the years.
Last year, in an interview on her Goop website, the two friendly exes discussed their continued love for each other and the approval of Paltrow's late father, Bruce Paltrow, for Pitt as a son-in-law. Paltrow also joked about finally finding the "Brad" she was supposed to marry when she wed producer Brad Falchuk in 2018.
Pitt and Paltrow expressed their affection for each other during the conversation, highlighting their lasting friendship. Pitt described Paltrow as "a friend" and expressed his love for her, which Paltrow reciprocated.
In addition to her relationship with Pitt, Paltrow also discussed her past romance with Ben Affleck, whom she dated on and off from 1997 to 2000, during the podcast interview. She played a game of "Brad or Ben," comparing the two actors in various categories. Paltrow shared her thoughts on who was more romantic, made her laugh, and was more likely to engage in arguments.
The actress playfully mentioned that both Pitt and Affleck were "good kissers" and had unique qualities. She also humorously noted that she couldn't believe her daughter was listening to the interview.