Duke of Sussex’s Desire for Independence Predated Relationship with Meghan Markle
The decision to step back from royal duties has often been pinned on Meghan Markle, but new insights reveal that Prince Harry’s desire to leave royal life was a long-standing sentiment. According to royal correspondent Rhiannon Mills, Harry privately expressed his inclination to "jump ship" during a 2015 trip to New Zealand, years before meeting Meghan.
Speaking candidly during the trip, Harry reportedly shared, “I’d love to move away, but I can’t because of what I need to do to support the Queen.” Mills described this private conversation as pivotal, adding, “Whenever anyone blames Meghan for their departure, I recall that Harry always had it in him to leave. Meghan simply held his hand and jumped with him.”
Harry’s wish for a more independent life was evident, as was his desire to build a family. During the same trip, he confided his wish to have children, though he acknowledged needing a partner to support him.
As the Duke and Duchess of Sussex prepare for separate public appearances, Harry will attend the New York Times DealBook Conference on December 4, while Meghan celebrates her close friend Tyler Perry at a star-studded Hollywood event. Their individual commitments reflect a growing trend of solo engagements, balancing personal and shared ambitions.
Additionally, the German documentary Harry - The Lost Prince, airing December 3, will delve deeper into the couple’s decision to step back from royal duties, shedding more light on the narrative of their departure.
This renewed focus on Harry’s long-held sentiments challenges the narrative that their move was driven solely by Meghan’s influence, painting a picture of a shared decision rooted in Harry’s longstanding desire for independence.
